We were educated to be a group. As an individual if you are more open minded you usually face problems in accepting rules. You do only what you like.
It is only a month of a year. It is only a day of a week. It is only an hour of a day and only a minute of an hour. The same with only a second from a minute. It is a second that runs like every other second from our life.
You are prepared to realize something. You arm yourself with a decision you have already taken. You are aware of the fact that you are on the right way. Your time and energy are now focused on a single direction.
We always try to judge people by their appearance. At the first sight we always make a categorization according to different criteria if we like the person or not. Everyone of has detains some standards we apply on practice for the person we like to analyse.