We all need friends and not just when things are going badly. A true life force, this unique relationship based on the sharing of feelings has become an essential factor in our existence. This emotional nourishment is essential to our emotional needs, to our physical well-being, to our general balance. The problem is that we are not surrounded only by “true friends”. How can we recognize those who want us well and weed out those who do us harm?
Live without perfection
The time waster, the dilettante, the calm one, the lukewarm one: Nils Spitzer outlines counter concepts to perfectionists in his book Overcoming Perfectionism.And recommends exercises to learn from them. Exercise with wasting time: Stroll and dawdle Intentionally disregard a specified duration, for example of distances, and procrastinate and slow your pace. Pretend to look around … Read more

